CERTIFICATION 'ILS Relationship Life Coach' — ICF ACCREDITED training.

Attend 3 online classes, learn to coach clients to build successful, whole relationships + learn the Enneagram of relationships. GAIN 15 HOURS ICF ACSTH + CCE.

What if you could become a certified Relationship Coach in 3 weeks?

Guiding clients to build happy, successful relationships and teams, based on wholeness.

Twice a year, we accept 15 new Relationship Coach students to attend our internationally accredited, ONLINE LIVE InnerLifeSkills Relationship Coach Certification course.

Are you a coach, consultant or therapist looking to add unique and powerful relationship coaching tools to your client service toolbox?

Or maybe you're just starting your journey to becoming a Certified Master Life Coach, and would love to start with Relationship Coaching as your first toolset of coaching processes.

If you have a love for coaching and guiding relationships to be healthy, happy and based on wholeness, then this ICF accredited short coaching certification course may be for you.

Relationship Coach Certification Program

Consider how many people are looking for help with their relationships?

Did you know that 2,400 people a month in the USA search the word "Relationship Coach" on Google, and according to Semrush, very few websites and online services deliver on that demand. What does this mean for you?

If you're looking for a niche market to serve or perhaps if you have an interest in Relationship Coaching, then this could be a worthwhile coaching path to explore.

Picture this...

  • Being able to offer coaching to clients to build relationships based on wholeness.
  • Attracting new clients and expanding your offering to existing clients.
  • Helping couples to communicate and understand each other.
  • Coaching clients to grow from trying to complete each other to being responsible for their own happiness and wholeness.
  • Facilitating unique processes like Relationship Bridge and Jigsaws for couples to strengthen their love, compassion and understanding.
  • Guiding individuals or couples through coaching processes to communicate and "get" each other.

Would you like to have:

  • An ILS Relationship Coach Certificate with 15 ICF certification hours, both ACSTH (Approved Coach Specific Training Hours) and CCE (Continued Coach Education Hours)? This is highly sought after and internationally recognized.
  • An understanding of the Enneagram Personality Types in relationship?
  • Coaching Worksheets and Scripts that are ready to use?
  • Credits towards your ILS Master Coach ACTP Certification - this short course counts as credits?
  • Relationship Coaching Processes to use for your clients, that are unique to InnerLifeSkills? You won't find them anywhere else!

Although the traditional approach to relationship coaching has value, we prefer to honor the deeper truth, that we are whole and complete, and that relationships can transcend emotional transactions.

The traditional approach to Relationship coaching:

  1. Seeing individuals as jigsaws - Where each person is dependent on another to complete them.
  2. Trying to solve the personality - Finding solutions for personality differences is the traditional approach, but that's like trying to solve apple tree's working with orange trees.
  3. Seeing relationships as transactions - Like negotiating contracts, traditionally we seek compromises and clash over the personalities expectations and demands.

The InnerLifeSkills approach to Relationship Coaching:

  1. Seeing individuals as whole and complete - Where each person is responsible for their own happiness and works on their personal growth to claim their wholeness, freeing them from dependency. Now each individual can share their love and wholeness with their partner.
  2. Rather working to understand the Personality - The personality can't be solved but can be understood. And with understanding it can be guided to its higher expression. That's why we include the popular Enneagram personality system to help understand the "reason" for behavior in relationship.
  3. Seeing relationships as opportunities for growth - There's nothing quite like relationships to highlight where we have "buttons" and so with wisdom we can coach relationships as a powerful means for growth.

Relationship Coach Certification Course
Use any device with good internet to join 3 live online Monday Classes, where you'll meet your expert ILS Master Trainer and your class of fellow student coaches.

Learning to coach relationships from Jigsaw Holes to Wholeness.


Learn these unique NUGGETS (techniques and methods):

Life - Relationships impact every aspect of life, and our ability or inability to relate shapes success.

Jigsaws - Analyse your own blueprint for relationships - what you are most likely to attract (positive and negative) and why.
Subcontracting - See how we unconsciously subcontract the missing parts of ourselves to others to be for us.
Buttons - Understand your own buttons, how they were formed and why they are a big part of relationship problems.
Plus Minus Equal - We have a choice between following biological survival programming, where we try to be PLUS or MINUS (better or lesser) than others to survive, or we can choose to relate from wisdom and wholeness to be EQUAL TO.
4 Wars - The war with the mind is the root of conflict.
Equal to Bridge - Coach the building of equal to bridges in relationship.
Treasures - Find the treasure buried in the shadow aspects of self.
Archetypes - Discover the important role of archetypal patters in relationship coaching.
Child Parent Adult - Coach clients to work to elevate their inner child and balance their inner parent archetypes, in order to free the inner adult archetype.
Enneagram Personality - See how the Enneagram Personality System helps us to strengthen and heal relationships.

Learn these Powerful Coaching Processes (PQF's):
Jigsaws - Coach clients to grow their relationships from jigsaw painful transactions to being based on individual wholeness.
Equal to Bridge - Coach teams and individuals to move out of plus minus dynamics into equal to bridges.
Inner Child Adult Parent - Inspired by Eric Berne's Transactional Analysis model, coach the balancing of the inner child and inner parent archetypes, in order to free the healthy adult archetype.


Relationship Coach Certification Program

Have a look at our Course Curriculum here.. and don't miss the FREE PREVIEWS.

Course Curriculum


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Your Instructor


Colleen-Joy
Colleen-Joy

If you have a love for empowering and enlightening, yourself and others, then Colleen-Joy's courses, books and PDFs are here to serve you. Colleen-Joy is an ICF MCC credentialled Coach and has taught over 900 presentations on stages and in boardrooms globally.

She guides visionaries to make a success at making a difference. Over 35,000 people have already benefited from her teachings. Her InnerLifeSkills® qualification courses have the highest ICF ACTP accreditation, which means that by studying Colleen's courses, you gain credibility and world-class skills.

You may recognize her from many television expert guest appearances or 2 TV documentaries about her life.

When Colleen-Joy isn't teaching, leading her team of expert trainers or writing—you'll find her driving her muddy 4x4 out to breathtaking places—where the horizon bends and animals roam free.


Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
~ LIVE WEEKLY CLASSES ~ This 3 week course runs twice a year. The weekly class is live on Mondays. ~ ONLINE VIDEOS + PDF's ~ After enrolling you'll have access to all of the ONLINE resources. Training videos, downloadable PDF worksheets, so that if you want to jump right in and start learning you can. Otherwise, wait for your weekly classes to start where your trainer will guide you.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What times are the live classes?
WEEKLY CLASS TIMES SA Johannesburg: 18h00 - 22h00 Europe Paris: 18h00 - 22h00* USA Los Angeles: 09h00 - 13h00* USA New York: 12h00 - 16h00* UK London: 17h00 - 21h00* *Please adjust if Daylight Savings. ​Check other times zones.
Aren't online classes cold and boring?
Not the way we offer them. Our students tell us how shocked they are to prefer our online classes to venue based classes. We keep the classes warm, very practical (you even work with your fellow students in breakout rooms to practice your coaching skills and processes) - this makes our online live classes very enjoyable. Look at our Online Classes information page https://www.innerlifeskills.com/about-online-classes/
How do assessments work?
For this course, you need only complete an online OPEN BOOK theory assessment.
Does this course count towards my ILS Master Coach ACTP certification?
Yes. Every short 3 week certification course adds credits towards your ILS Master Coach Certification.
Will I be able to teach Coaches after this course?
No. If you want to acquire a license to train any InnerLifeSkills Coaching courses, you will need to complete our ILS Master Coach Program and our ILS Trainer Program. With this course certification, you can facilitate coaching processes for individuals or groups.
Is there space in our next class?
We book these classes up to a year in advance, so once you send in your enrollment form, we will be able to let you know if there is space. If the next group is full, we can reserve you a place in a future course. We run 2 of these online courses per year.

InnerLifeSkills Relationship Coach Certification Prices

What you'll receive:

  • CLASSES - Access to attend the 3 x 4 hour online classes LIVE with trainer and classmates.
  • COACH PACK - Relationship Coach online pack - with coaching processes, Manual, ready to use coaching worksheets, Relationship coaching infographic cards.
  • ONLINE RESOURCES - A library of tutorial videos, downloadable worksheets and coaching scripts
  • ASSESSMENTS - Online Theory assessment.
  • CERTIFICATION - ILS Relationship Coach certification with ICF international 15 hours ACSTH + CCE

Once off payment to secure your place, PayPal (VISA, MASTER CARD, AMEX, DISCOVER) and EFT payment options.

$ 917
€ 769
R 6,989 (SA Only)
£ 687

~ READY TO ENROLL? ~

We book up to a year in advance, so reserve your place today.
After clicking Enroll, you'll be directed to an enrolment form to select your
DATES and PAYMENT preference.

We'll email you confirmation of enrolment and payment request and help you to enroll.
Once enrolled you'll have access to the online resources to begin your coaching journey.

See you in class!

Relationship Coach Certification Program


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